Showing posts with label solve. Show all posts
Showing posts with label solve. Show all posts

Friday, 13 September 2013

Men want women:What women should do

Its no secret neither is it a lie that men chemically respond to women, sometimes involuntarily.
As a woman i would like you to know 10 facts about men wanting women and how to handle such attention when it arrises.
At work, school, church and virtually everywhere we go, men are around and if you have been with us for a while you would know that as an attractive woman the attention you get is limitless.

How do men want women or how do they show they want you

don't mistake this for sexual wanting, no that's not exactly what am talking about becuase i believe if they want you just for sex, something is wrong. As a woman you have certain traits that soothes the man in them outside sexual relations. such traits are but not limited to;

  • your beauty
  • your calmness and serenity
  • your motherly personality
  • your smile and soothing words
  • your listening ear
  • your body
  • your perspective
  • your love and attention
  • your smiles
  •  your hair 
Now what do you do when men approach you especially if you can't tell exactly what attracted them.
Use all the personality above excluding body to make them feel at home.
Never disrespect them, because if you, no matter how endowed you are they stay away and the bad ones plan to hurt you.
Don't give them 100% because you don't belong to them
Set boundaries on physical touch, emotional manipulation (women fall for words), outings and phone calls
Be sure to speak up immediately when they do things you don't approve of.
Don't be afraid to compete healthily with them

What To Do When You Get Dating

Give 70% you are not his wife
No sleeping over and showing him everything, if you do that why would he want to marry you
Cook for him only on special/specific occasions
Be sincere and tell him exaclty where you are when he calls to know
Ask questions when you need clarification
Set boundaries to intimacy
Don't dump your problems on him
keep a conscious note in mind that HE IS NOT YOURS yet
NOTHING IS DO OR DIE, LEARN TO LET GO WHEN ITS DANGEROUS AND DEGRADING
Never fall for sweet tones, stay away from over impressive men
Learn to say No and walk away
Don't text life out of him

What To Do When He Says Marry Me
Coming up next to follow us

i want to be attractive: how to attract women

Friday, 6 September 2013

How to deal with annoying colleagues

It really annoying and frustrating to have to see and interact everyday with someone who gets on your nerve at the workplace especially if the one is a little higher than you.

Simple things than can cause bitterness in the works are

  • he is always ordering you around and has no sense of politeness
  • he sends you on irrelevant errands, e.g you wrote your report and dropped it where its supposed to be but he says go get it and read to me, how annoying
  • he asks questions like you are a child that needs to be walked through every little thing
  • he questions every step you take and you have to explain, your boss wanted it that way and so on. now that can be really uncomfortable for both an introvert or extrovert.
the extrovert will simply not be able to contain it and may blow up saying all the wrong things which people may not really find cool.
the introvert will endure in silence thereby leading to bitterness which is not healthy for beautiful women.
so how do we do it, here's my little strategy which am about to apply because someone is really getting to me and am an extrovert.

you are going to go nicely to him/her when you calmed and free of nerves and ask "can i talk to you for a sec?"
"yes sure" his reply
"i've been wondering, if i may have done something to upset you or make your angry"
if he gives you reasons,good ones apologise and leave pending when he repeats the attitude.
if he says nothing then you explained that you do not appreciate his contenance and reactions towards you, avoid trying to name instances, that show you kept records and beautiful girls don't have time fo that.
tell him, that you apreciate your working together and the job but you cannot tolerate his attitude of authoritarianism or control because he didnt employ you and even though he holds a higher position you expect some form of respect from him. let him know the job may be important but not at the expense of your self worth and you can live beyond him.
while you are at these, dont let him interrupt and be calm like you are telling a story.
when you're done ask if he has anything to say, listen quietly and don't interupt. if there are any misunderstanding explain carefully, apologise agian if need be and excuse yourself.

now you've not only proven you are well mannered, but earned he's respect but if he's one of those kinds that like to fight dirty, take it to your employer.
goodluck