What to Do When He Proposes

Just like i promised.
You agree men would always want women for a variety of reasons and we already discussed the different stages and needs that men may have towrds you as well as you possible response. if you didnt get that don't worry you can catch up with the link at the bottom of this page.
What do you do, when a man proposes; proposing, is not you assuming the both of you are headed for marriage but he "asking" you to marry him and be his helpmeet.

First reaction is important, if he's wise he'll watch for your body language. if you do like him show it and be excited but you need to think about first before giving an answer. you need to think well, about what?

your maturity
his christian life
background differences
his maturity
Do you want to marry him
would you want his last name
kids
intimacy
Food
Finances
Job
just name, think about all them, in case of reservations, let him know and discuss it. this is not to say you must be similar in everything but to help know the pros and cons of living with him everyday of life and deciding if you are willing to happily overlooked his weakness.
You both can never be the same, even twin siblings are not.
he is not you, your brother or father so don't expect him to act like them
Get your facts straight and talk to frineds that are elderly, pray about it and wait, this can be weeks or months but if he's really serious about you he will wait.
Always remember a failed courtship is better than a failed marriage, be mature enough to admit danger signs and walk away.
Goodluck

Men want women:What women should do

Its no secret neither is it a lie that men chemically respond to women, sometimes involuntarily.
As a woman i would like you to know 10 facts about men wanting women and how to handle such attention when it arrises.
At work, school, church and virtually everywhere we go, men are around and if you have been with us for a while you would know that as an attractive woman the attention you get is limitless.

How do men want women or how do they show they want you

don't mistake this for sexual wanting, no that's not exactly what am talking about becuase i believe if they want you just for sex, something is wrong. As a woman you have certain traits that soothes the man in them outside sexual relations. such traits are but not limited to;

• your beauty
• your calmness and serenity
• your motherly personality
• your smile and soothing words
• your listening ear
• your body
• your perspective
• your love and attention
• your smiles
•  your hair 

Now what do you do when men approach you especially if you can't tell exactly what attracted them.
Use all the personality above excluding body to make them feel at home.
Never disrespect them, because if you, no matter how endowed you are they stay away and the bad ones plan to hurt you.
Don't give them 100% because you don't belong to them
Set boundaries on physical touch, emotional manipulation (women fall for words), outings and phone calls
Be sure to speak up immediately when they do things you don't approve of.
Don't be afraid to compete healthily with them

What To Do When You Get Dating

Give 70% you are not his wife
No sleeping over and showing him everything, if you do that why would he want to marry you
Cook for him only on special/specific occasions
Be sincere and tell him exaclty where you are when he calls to know
Ask questions when you need clarification
Set boundaries to intimacy
Don't dump your problems on him
keep a conscious note in mind that HE IS NOT YOURS yet
NOTHING IS DO OR DIE, LEARN TO LET GO WHEN ITS DANGEROUS AND DEGRADING
Never fall for sweet tones, stay away from over impressive men
Learn to say No and walk away
Don't text life out of him

What To Do When He Says Marry Me
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Weddings, Women Must Have for a Solid Marriage

As ladies our one non changing dream from childhood is usually the day you walk down the aisle in a white dress, moving towards the most handsome and compatible male we've ever met.
 But in all its fantasies and anxiety you can get overwhelmed and fail to realise that the day itself isn't what really matters. yes, its okay to want the best day but it will end in a few hours and everyone will go home leaving you with your prince charming.The first night is great, the next and the next, you give it one month you're both bored and start looking for excitement somewhere else.
So instead of planning a fairytale wedding lets plan a 'not a bed of roses marriage'
What I mean is, steps and precautions to take before you say i do,if you dont take this steps here are your consequences:

• boredom
• anger/iritation
• fights and arguments
• family interference
• financial crisis

To avoid the above and much more here's your top 10 must have for a fairytale wedding and a solid happy marriage.

Ask yourself if he were to be cripled and old overnight would i still love him?
If you answer to that is yes after thinking it through thoroughly then i choose to believe you do love your husband/groom.

Decide how you intend to spend,save and share joint profits; will you both have joint accounts or deposit a percentage of your monthly income to a joint family account. Who will be paying for what? how and what will the money in your joint savings account be used.

State clearly or display exactly who you are before marriage, so he doesn't tell you "i didn't know you were this way or i wouldn't have married you"

Let him know your goals and business/schooling aspirations and agree or disagree on them, so you can both find a common ground on it.

How do you intend to accomodate his family, please let him know what you cannot tolerate. its difficult but will set a whole lot of record straight.

Ensure you guys can spend hours together doing fun things, believe some couples have never spent over 3 hours together so when marriage puts them there, it becomes a challenge and they can't stand each other.

Make up your mind to let go a little bit of hanging out with your friends because you won't have that time anymore, especially male ones unless if you would be fine with him hanging out with a girlfriend regularly.

Love his family and value his friends

Respect, Respect and Respect cannot be overemphasized if you don't give it to him, someone else will. never antagonize him in public or ignore his request.

Sex, okay i wish i could skip that but the list wont be complete, as you should male and female are wired differently so i'll recommend you get a good clean book on this topic if you are as naive as some of us. Because they are very active.

Food is vital, a hungry man is an angry man, bad food is worst so do learn to cook especially his favourite if you expect him to come home straight from work daily.

Compliments always tell them when they look good or do good things, please be sincere and nicely point out negative actions or traits.

Love covers a multitude of sin, so from the first question getting a yes answer,you can do this. you can be a good submissive wife who cares for and attends to the needs of her husband.
Don't bother about yours, if you meet his, yours will be met.
Goodluck and let me know if you have any personal questions.