How to have a fun Monday

I have been thinking about my weekend and what i could possibly do to have fun and let go of all the work stress and up tightness, in my quest to have a blast weekend i compiled a list of things to do on a Saturday which is basically the only free day, because Friday is still work day though some may get and early off and Sunday is church which i can't afford to miss. so for me to be the most cheerful and be counted as one of the most cheerful person around on Monday while everyone else is stone face my weekend must be a great preparation.

Cook: if you love food like i do, you will know cooking, especially delicacies and specialities is a treat and a fun chore. now i watched food channels and have some really cool recipes I'll like to try, so why not go grocery shopping on Friday after work and watch for fresh,trans fat free and low cholesterol and fat foods.

Watch a movie with friends: this is a perfect indoor Saturday night, invite over some lazy friends of yours for the whole day,pick a meal you can all prepare,eat, gist and round up the night with a classic comic movie. you'll remember it for weeks!

take a trip to the park with your family: pack up a picnic and move to a far away park with your family or friends, if you prefer, get story books, old photos and journals. no phone, no email, its family time. engage in all available activities. you will all come home relaxed.

add that to a refreshing Sunday and you’ll have a fabulous Monday with fun memories.

 

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How to deal with annoying colleagues

It really annoying and frustrating to have to see and interact everyday with someone who gets on your nerve at the workplace especially if the one is a little higher than you.

Simple things than can cause bitterness in the works are

• he is always ordering you around and has no sense of politeness
• he sends you on irrelevant errands, e.g you wrote your report and dropped it where its supposed to be but he says go get it and read to me, how annoying
• he asks questions like you are a child that needs to be walked through every little thing

• he questions every step you take and you have to explain, your boss wanted it that way and so on. now that can be really uncomfortable for both an introvert or extrovert.

the extrovert will simply not be able to contain it and may blow up saying all the wrong things which people may not really find cool.
the introvert will endure in silence thereby leading to bitterness which is not healthy for beautiful women.
so how do we do it, here's my little strategy which am about to apply because someone is really getting to me and am an extrovert.

you are going to go nicely to him/her when you calmed and free of nerves and ask "can i talk to you for a sec?"
"yes sure" his reply
"i've been wondering, if i may have done something to upset you or make your angry"
if he gives you reasons,good ones apologise and leave pending when he repeats the attitude.
if he says nothing then you explained that you do not appreciate his contenance and reactions towards you, avoid trying to name instances, that show you kept records and beautiful girls don't have time fo that.
tell him, that you apreciate your working together and the job but you cannot tolerate his attitude of authoritarianism or control because he didnt employ you and even though he holds a higher position you expect some form of respect from him. let him know the job may be important but not at the expense of your self worth and you can live beyond him.
while you are at these, dont let him interrupt and be calm like you are telling a story.
when you're done ask if he has anything to say, listen quietly and don't interupt. if there are any misunderstanding explain carefully, apologise agian if need be and excuse yourself.

now you've not only proven you are well mannered, but earned he's respect but if he's one of those kinds that like to fight dirty, take it to your employer.
goodluck

5 Simple Healthy Habits every woman must have

I have come to turn some simple acts into habits and the there are healthy, you see the manner and way in which you balance your health now will to a great extent determine how you will grow old. even though we don't like the though of growing old but we still don't want to die young. every one wants to live for decades and still be strong, beautiful and healthy. if you want these then its time to start cultivating this very simple habits that will go a long way to building your system for rainy days.

Habit 1: take a least 30 minutes walk per day, I know the car and cab issue makes it so easy to live months without exercising those gorgeous legs of yours. ensure to park at least 3 blocks from your destination and walk the rest.

Habit 2: drink water at least a glass every 3 hours. get a pack of water and drop in your car trunk, office and room so you can easily reach for it regularly.

Habit 3: don't ignore pains or discomforts you feel during the day, ensure call a doctor friend, don't have one and cant afford regular doctor checkups? just Google how you felt am sure you will get useful information but don't act on them unless you trust the site like WebMD.

Habit 4: try to keep a happy atmosphere, keep out all negativity. tell someone you would appreciate it if they don't speak evil things around you, or gossip and lies.

Habit 5: Pray, trust me its very refreshing and it doesn't mean you have to get a special position of place, just to talk to God while you drive and work.

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Ten Etiquette for Ladies

the top etiquette for ladies are quotes to help you live a more fulfilling and worthy life, one that not only favours you but those that come in contact with you. A lady should not be selfish, she should go the extra mile for those in her life whether they repay in like or not.

The word 'love' means different things to different people and so is its application but in my own terms LOVE IS LOVING THE DESERVING AND UNDESERVING PARTNER, FRIEND, PARENT, CHILD its not conditional, if you give love expecting something in return then you are not loving right. love is not seasonal, its not only for well-wishers, its not bought with material possession, it doesn't control us we decide to love or not to love. do visit tomorrow when I'll explain better what love is and how the world has made it seem.

NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS IN LIFE BE GOOD, BEEN GOOD TO OTHERS IS THE BEST LEGACY YOU CAN LEAVE BEHIND

DON'T EVER LET NEGATIVE ANONS DISTRACT YOU FROM HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE

THE QUESTION ISN'T WHO'S GOING TO LET YOU, BUT WHO'S GOING TO STOP YOU

SOMETIMES ITS BETTER TO BE KIND THAN RIGHT

HOLD ON TO THE LOVE, NEVER THE LOSS

A TRUE WOMAN IS IN HER CHARACTER NOT APPEARANCE

you can always share yours if any.

Women for Men

most times we are faced with so much loneliness and a feeling of not been alive that we seek solace, attention and love from the opposite sex. both men and women seek each other for various reasons some of which they never find solutions in the partners they find. i am going to talk about why we seek each other, the feelings we have when we find someone and the most likely end of it all. this is a personal opinion and no offence meant to anyone please. and other opinions and arguments are welcome.
WHY MEN SEEK WOMEN ONLINE
one of the most popular reason men seek women online is to play dirty tricks. the anonymous nature of online dating creates room for lies, deception and impersonation. most men are not what they would love to be in reality, maybe in regards to wealth, power or security. so if they seek women who can see them it would be difficult to exercise power over such women because they are not worth it but online they can lie and deceive thereby gaining the respect and love they crave from an ignorant woman.(no offence meant)
the second reason is lack of confidence and self esteem to approach women physically so they do it online were they do not need to speak face to face. in such relationships some also seek women they would naturally not approach in reality and demand for things they would not dare ask for in person.
its like talking to a translucent glass, we see but we don't really see
WHY WOMEN SEEK MEN ONLINE
for women is mostly loneliness. women are attention seeking in nature and we always want to be loved, pampered and told nice things. if we can not get such from our partners we seek them online. as a fact all men you meet online are always nice. haven’t you ever wondered why?
secondly, desperation for life partners or intimate partners forces women to search for men online.at a certain age if a woman has no steady partner she starts getting desperate for marriage. while some women seek fantasies they cant bring themselves to ask their partners in real life.
WHEN THEY FIND EACH OTHER
when this two group meet, unusual things begin to happen. they lie about their age, job, location, marital status, children, education etc. they give each other what they seek without restrictions love, fun, attention, respect, intimacy etc. they build dream lives together to a stage they stop living their normal lives and dwell in fantasies that such relationships will last forever, it does last for long in some cases, you withdraw offline and live online.
THE END OF IT ALL
they wake up from the dream and realize the time they wasted on a farce and the relationships they lost while dreaming. 10% of such relationship leads to marriage, out of the 10, 5% divorce under a year, 3% endure abusive relationships, only 2% live happily ever after. is it worth the time we give it? what if you don't get so lucky, I'm not saying its wrong to date online i just want you all to know the risk involved. while you meet men and women online and make good long lasting friends as i have too do not overlook reality. ‘ the devil you know……….’ I'll
let you complete that.
like I said its a personal opinion, yours are welcome. to all my beautiful women out there play but play safe!

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