i have decided to talk about these because there lots of misconception over attractiveness which is the main theme of these blog
some say sexy ; others say good body figure: light skin and so on
we determine how attractive someone is by their face,figure,color,height.if you ask a lady “describe an attractive woman” she would tell you tall,shapely and a long face and i wonder who gave us that definition!
now if you ask me what it means to be attractive i would say
good hair,good fitted clothes,great shoes and a confident smile! so you will see that from my point of view. anyone can be attractive if we do the right thing the right way.
color combination and
hair styles that suit the face and figure
i remember when i was younger i used to be very thin ;i still am but more fleshy now.when i wanted to make my hair we would looked at the magazine and i would see so many beautiful hairstyle but i couldn't do them for two reasons
- those style required more extensions
- there were very ‘big’
now i had a problem, in fact i still have a problem with hair styles that require 2-3 packs of hair extensions.just imagine me a thin girl with a very big head,how beautiful can she be?
i didn't want a head that was bigger than my body. well, that’s a personal opinion.
but when you wear those really full and ‘big’ weaves please bear in mind that,people would sit behind you and they need to see the pulpit too.
in general if you want to be attractive everywhere you go:
- wear simple beautiful clothes,there is beauty in simplicity.lets say you are going for a birthday party you don't need to wear all the balloons on you! a simple top and a good jean or skirt,a nice hair that's neat and suits your face,a beautiful single colored shoe,a little chain bracelet,your fancy wristwatch,a casual makeup (not rainbow please). yes there are times when you might go rainbow but that's if you are going for a crazy carnival,otherwise PRACTICE SIMPLICITY
- Make-up. play with colors but use them lightly beautiful.sometimes we want our eye shadows to match our outfit,which isn't necessary but if you like it use it moderately.i personally wont call a lady wearing a a red dress and a her eyes filled with red as well as her lips attractive,no.
i would appreciate contributive photos to this post on beautiful women gather to differentiate attractive in simplicity from ‘its too much’
please feel free to drop any comment or questions below
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