i really love laughing a lot and that's a sign of happiness from within which is the best, as an attractive woman smiles don't necessarily mean you are happy but laughter does.
you know that very loud creamy laughter that makes people around turn to stare at you only for you to laugh more! i love it and i want to tell you how to have a happy spirit and how it contributes to making you an attractive woman.You might ask how does that connect to looking attractive?
I'll explain, a happy soul cannot be hidden,no matter how you look if you are happy its CONTAGIOUS trust me,people would just fall in love with you everywhere you go. please i don't mean laughing over silly things and jokes, i mean showing love,kindness and attention to others, when you do these to others 90% chance is you will laugh with the fullness of your heart.
when you make someone smile, seeing that joy on their faces gives you an inner peace and joy that will radiate out of you to everyone that comes close to you.have you ever wondered why that girl,lady or woman is liked by everyone Even when she isn't as attractive as you?
well the answer is she shows more attention, everyone loves attention and love anyone who gives them that it doesn't matter how ugly that person is.
IN SUMMARY, THE KEY TO BEING HAPPY ALWAYS, IS MAKING OTHERS HAPPY!
Tuesday, 3 April 2012
do i have to be thin to look beautiful?
for the past centuries you have to be figured curved to be considered a beautiful and attractive woman.
in recent times you have to be thin to be attractive. that's the today's world definition of beauty but is it really correct,should we go out of our way,starving so we could be considered attractive?
am not going to take any stance in this I'll just let you decide. which is right or wrong and what your conclusion is.
reason being that i don't want it to be my opinion solely,this topic is a big issue today though nobody ever argues it, but is it proper to attribute beauty and attractiveness to a certain shape? its about the public and its your views i want to use in educating those that may be thinking of starving themselves or consuming bags of calories to gain weight.
so friends drop your opinion
I'll really appreciate it
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in recent times you have to be thin to be attractive. that's the today's world definition of beauty but is it really correct,should we go out of our way,starving so we could be considered attractive?
am not going to take any stance in this I'll just let you decide. which is right or wrong and what your conclusion is.
reason being that i don't want it to be my opinion solely,this topic is a big issue today though nobody ever argues it, but is it proper to attribute beauty and attractiveness to a certain shape? its about the public and its your views i want to use in educating those that may be thinking of starving themselves or consuming bags of calories to gain weight.
so friends drop your opinion
I'll really appreciate it
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Monday, 2 April 2012
who is an attractive woman lady or girl?
i have decided to talk about these because there lots of misconception over attractiveness which is the main theme of these blog
some say sexy ; others say good body figure: light skin and so on
we determine how attractive someone is by their face,figure,color,height.if you ask a lady “describe an attractive woman” she would tell you tall,shapely and a long face and i wonder who gave us that definition!
now if you ask me what it means to be attractive i would say
good hair,good fitted clothes,great shoes and a confident smile! so you will see that from my point of view. anyone can be attractive if we do the right thing the right way.
color combination and
hair styles that suit the face and figure
i remember when i was younger i used to be very thin ;i still am but more fleshy now.when i wanted to make my hair we would looked at the magazine and i would see so many beautiful hairstyle but i couldn't do them for two reasons
- those style required more extensions
- there were very ‘big’
now i had a problem, in fact i still have a problem with hair styles that require 2-3 packs of hair extensions.just imagine me a thin girl with a very big head,how beautiful can she be?
i didn't want a head that was bigger than my body. well, that’s a personal opinion.
but when you wear those really full and ‘big’ weaves please bear in mind that,people would sit behind you and they need to see the pulpit too.
in general if you want to be attractive everywhere you go:
- wear simple beautiful clothes,there is beauty in simplicity.lets say you are going for a birthday party you don't need to wear all the balloons on you! a simple top and a good jean or skirt,a nice hair that's neat and suits your face,a beautiful single colored shoe,a little chain bracelet,your fancy wristwatch,a casual makeup (not rainbow please). yes there are times when you might go rainbow but that's if you are going for a crazy carnival,otherwise PRACTICE SIMPLICITY
- Make-up. play with colors but use them lightly beautiful.sometimes we want our eye shadows to match our outfit,which isn't necessary but if you like it use it moderately.i personally wont call a lady wearing a a red dress and a her eyes filled with red as well as her lips attractive,no.
i would appreciate contributive photos to this post on beautiful women gather to differentiate attractive in simplicity from ‘its too much’
please feel free to drop any comment or questions below
how to maintain your natural hair
the hair is one of the most vital part of a complete and attractive woman, if you ignore your hair then you will just be existing as a woman not as an attractive woman.it is very common for Nigerian women especially housewives to neglect their hair, i say this because i can testify to some irritating hair under the extensions. sometimes we feel because we mostly use attached wig, its a waste to pay so much attention to the natural hair. which is very bad. why?
the public might not see your natural(which they really don't care to)
but your husband/boyfriend sees it, he has to deal with the smell that oozes out
your stylist sees it and she/he has to deal with touching and weaving a hair that looks like “cobweb” don't mind my language but its the truth. i personally can not touch such hair.
and these two people are very important to you, it doesn't matter what the world thinks but it matters what your husband and stylist think! please ladies.
lets get to the main deal how will you have a shining strength filled hair/maintain your already great hair.
- find out your hair type from your stylist. there are numerous hair types and all requires its own care.
- use good hair products that suit your hair types.DOESN’T HAVE TO BE EXPENSIVE. most women and girls want to try it all.. please and please don't try every product in the market!. stick to your brand unless you have an issue with the current brand,which if you do consult a hair specialist so you make a good choice.
- don't over brush…once your hair is straighten out its okay! don't brush and brush and brush. it does not help your get smoother like most people believe.
- for those of us who use (relaxers). stick to a kind that suits your hair,don't relax it too often unless if your hair is very tough.which in that case i will advise monthly relaxing.i have a very very tough hair so i relax often and use hair softeners.
- i am totally against hair stretching, using such intense heat on your hair is ‘wickedness’. i see my hair as a baby that needs care and attention, but i don't give it so much attention that is gets bad!
- brush your hair before bed.
- use quality hair fruits to wash regularly.
- avoid as much as possible, hair styles that are clustered or sealed so air is prevented from coming in, like i said your hair is a baby it will suffocate if you derive it of air.
- if your have to use a hair extension for more than a month, please let it be removable, like a wig.
- if you have full and tough hair like mine, use designated hair combs.
- yes, if a relaxer says 30 minutes for relaxed time please don't exceed the time, if your hair doesn't get relaxed in that stipulated time, then my dear, get another relaxer that’s for your hair type.
- eat a diet that prevent hair loss. fatty acids,fish and milk.
- even if your hair isn't so good, don't let everyone know just look good.
- know your shampoo ingredients.
- after washing do not rub your hair or comb, let it dry first.
- use a detangler suitable for your hair type,use good hair creams and oil.
i want a glowing beautiful skin!
if that's your question just do the following which is an extract from my eBook, just an extract if you want more drop a comment below- wash your face before going to bed, research shows that skin repairs itself fro around 11pm.let your skin feel cool too.
- wear rays protective creams 24/7
- pamper your face do not pinch or peel it
- if you have a dry skin use lotion like cleanser if you have oily skin use plain cleansers
i can tell you its the most comprehensive book on beautiful skin and up to date!
how to get rid of dark spots naturally
in your quest to become an attractive woman dark spots are terrible hindered, dark spots are those little darker places in your skin, there stand out more if you are light complexion, now you will see so many creams,lotion, blogs, websites that sat they have the cure.but as an experienced fashionista i would say STAY AWAY FROM CHEMICALS, i do have some very little ones on my face caused by ‘mr pimples’ i didn't clear them so far with chemicals, i used simple home methods, it would take longer to clear off but it will preserve your skin and complexion which is very important if you want to be attractive. while you are treating them naturally use foundation powders or creams that hide black spots. its SIMPLE!
- follow this steps:
always use mild soap on your face like dettol or lux or dudu osun, even if you want to whiten your skin.let your cream be the whitener, PLEASE let your soap be mild not medicated except you are treating something else
use cosmetics that suit your skin type
do not try every facial cleanser or scrub you hear about,you face is delicate so preserve it
use the white part of raw egg, apply to the face, leave for 5 min and rinse with warm water. do this daily
watch your face every night before going to bed, no matter how cold you are, use warm water. after a harsh weather, like dust,rain wash your face
select your facial cosmetics carefully (very important)
do not pinch your acne/pimples
lastly ignore them,do not put your mind so much on it, if you do people will notice it more. enjoy your beauty and let the acne disappear with time,
Note: if its severe acne/blackheads or pimples drop a comment if you need personal assistance
there you have it lets get attractive and going
How should a LADY shop for clothes
As an attracvtive lady of style and class you don't shop like everyone else. so today I'm telling how to shop right, get the best prices,colors,shapes, designs etcbut i really cannot give you every detail because its sort off difficult to explain in writing.I'm going to use me and my sis as case study
“i want to go shopping to change my wardrobe and i asked faith to come along”
first lesson:don't go shopping alone,two heads are better than one
“i want to start with skirts and i and faith pick out three great boutiques in town, we picked a date”
second lesson:do not go to any shop, pick out before going, if you have no idea where is the best.i can help you with directories, don't get scared the information will be for free.
“when we got to the first shop, we went straight to the skirt section, and picked all the ones we like which was 18 pieces and i only wanted ten.out of the 18, we picked out the best from the 18 which made it reduce to 13, we picked out the best again and it reduced to 10,BINGO! i have successfully picked out ten best skirts from that shop!”
third lesson:if its skirt you wish to buy don't look at tops, go straight to skirts *i know that's difficult but discipline yourself* even if you want just two feel free pick out ten! and countdown like i did in the case study
“before we paid we check the quality of each skirt, texture,coloring,sewing line etc so we wont buy bad materials we weighed the prices with the skirts and since there were all worth it we paid.”
fourth lesson;check and check things before you pay let your friend help you.
i am an independent fashion consultant and i have helped so many shop even in their absence, i go with clients as a guide,i shop for busy clients and give advice on dressing and attractiveness.
so if you need further help or you want to know something i failed to address here call m08182525354 or email infotheacademy@yahoo.com
Nine ways to take care of your nails
Our nails is a very important part of our general appearance but just like our hair most people tend to think that because we can have it covered its pointless getting yourself worked out over it.i say pamper your nails,you are admired more when your natural nails is clean and neat than when your artificial nails is clean and neat. why because everyone knows how difficult it is to take care of the natural nails and make it beautiful. as an African I'll list some challenges i encounter with my n.nails and i wouldn't know if it also applies to other races.there are
- breaking: even when you file and trim them there keep breaking and looking distorted
- inability of the applied nail paint to stay for a long time,it peels off in days.
- dirt keeps getting in making it brownish especially if you live in dusty environment or cities
- it doesn't grow beyond a certain extent cos it breaks
you can take care of the above issues in nine ways which are:
- always wash your hands frequently after doing anything even writing it keeps them softer and whiter
- use dis solvers to remove nail polish do not use blade,it kills the strength of your nails and that makes them break.
- when trimming them do it in a preferably in a u-shape
- never chew your nails
- don't expose them to heat especially when cooking use a glove
- soak them in lemon at least twice a week its a nail treatment
- use hand lotions, like DOVE products
- then polish them with natural colors except in special occasions
- be always conscious of them and love them too,
i can recommend some really good products call or email for help 08182525354 infotheacademy@yahoo.com
how your bra affects your dressing, making you less attractive
believe it or not your bra plays a role in how much of an attractive woman you are.wearing all the nice clothes will be meaningless if your have a bad bra on.
what is a bra?
it is that lingerie you wear to cover and put your breast in shape
what is bad bra?
a bad bra only covers but fails to put your breast in shape like below
how do i know i have a bad bra on?
its easy because to be a beautiful woman you must be conscious of your appearance
- look at a full length mirror wearing a bra
- find out if your breast is touching your chest under, if it is, its not a good one because if you wear a bra your breast should be independent i.e not leaning down
- find out if your breast is protruding through the upper part of your bra,like you are wearing an undersize.if it is your bra is bad as in image 1
- turn around and look at the back, where is the strap, if it on the same level as your breast it wrong. a good bra’s back strap should be below the breast level
with these few signs you should change the bra,because it will totally ruin your dressing! it will either make your breast look like my grandmother’s or it would make them look like those girls that hawk oranges.in case you don't know how their breast looks on their cloths,I'll try to describe it,the bra pushes up the breast so much that their breast is almost to their throat and if you take a look at their back the strap becomes a ‘necklace’ do you get the picture? well if you don't click the link http://beautifulnigeriangirl.blogspot.com and check my photos.
i have tried to describe these to the best of my ability.so what’s a good bra simple! its the opposite of the bad one and it has the following features:
the back strap is placed below your breast line
your breast do not protrude out,its very free and your breast are relaxed not high or low just where there have to be
there will be a space between your breasts,it totally frees your breast not suffocate them
so that’s it!
in the case you need personal help in shopping for a bra or clothes or consult on dressing,like a guide and you are in Nigeria call 08182525354 or email, if you are in Abuja i will personally get them for you.
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