Friday 20 April 2012

the easiest way to be attractive to yourself

When I was young, I often obsessed about what I looked like. Perhaps this happens to everyone, more-or-less. It is common to be a bit dissatisfied with parts of our body, our appearance, and our level of attractiveness. This dissatisfaction and concern especially comes out when we think about dating and becoming passionate with a partner.
As I studied attraction further, however, I came to understand that physical appearance was not the only aspect of ourselves that was attractive. Our personalities can influence how others see us (for more, see here). In addition, our confidence and social skills can spark attraction, passion, and intrigue in potential lovers (see here, here, here, and here).

Eventually, I also discovered that those "unchangeable" parts of our looks were not driving attraction anyway! Contrary to popular belief, a symmetrical nose, the perfectly proportionate figure, or a classic face are not nearly as important as the apects of yourself that are easy to change. The little things under your control are the most attractive characteristics of all.
so if you ever felt like this then you should know it will not take the shaking of the earth for you to be attractive but rather it will be a surprise if after going through this blog you are still unattractive!
we are all beautiful

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