Saturday 21 April 2012

how to be attractive to men 3&4

For the last two day we've discussed 2 secrets to enhance a man's
attraction to you!
Tip 3 Do not be a talkative: there is nothing as annoying as when
someone wont stop talking and they keep interrupting you. Have you
experienced that before? H mm.. Well i have i always pick up my phone
and ignore them...yes, and they get the message instantly!
Imagine on an outing with a potential or already boyfriend and you
just cant shut up!
Before he completes a sentence you jump in,trust me a week is the
longest he will last around you.
Now sometimes we do not know we are talkative.if you wish to know
practice this poll i used it in secondary after a friend told me i was
rude.
Pick disparately 5 friends
ask them if u interrupt in discussions-do it individually
if 3 or 2 out of 5 says maybe or yes
please adjust.

Friday 20 April 2012

make up in 5 minutes

The perfect makeover is like a work of art. Just like the artist who primes his canvas to mask the imperfections, we also need to do the same but with foundation! The ideal foundation must have the right coverage but should not leave your skin looking pink, orange, ashy or two-toned. It must be totally natural-looking.
When doing a makeover, the only color on the face should come from blush,eye shadow,lipstick,lip gloss, mascara or eye liner.foundation should be used as a "primer" to create the canvas, not to add color!
Most women have yellow based skin and most likely, so do you. To create the effect of having naturally flawless skin you must wear a color base foundation that suits your skin. If the foundation you select has a pink or orange tone, you will never get a perfect match. Be wary of brands that claim to be yellow based but are really orange-based.
some makeup have a true yellow base. developed for beauty pageants so there are foundation shades for all skin colors and they all fit like a Second Skin.
If you have naturally great skin, then by all means use a sheer liquid foundation. For full coverage we recommend that you select a cream foundation.
If you need to conceal severe skin blemishes such as marks, acne, vitiligo or rosacea, then you need to use maximum coverage camouflage concealer. You can easily using this camouflage makeup as well. This also has to be yellow based to ensure a natural-looking, flawless finish.
When you have created the look of having flawless-looking skin, you now have the perfect canvas to explore your creativity with your cheek, lip and especially your eye colors.
this is just a simple guide to a 5 minute make up, if you have contributions please drop them below or contact me to write for us.

How do i know my skin type

your skin is generally classified into one of four categories:
-normal
-oily
-dry
 However, your skin type can change as you age, and other factors like genetics and even illness can play a part
Normal skin:
which has a good balance of moisture, small pores and an even tone, is the goal of most skin care regimens. Most people have normal skin, but to maintain its good condition, it’s important to minimize its exposure to the sun using good sunscreens.
Put it by your toothpaste and use it, It doesn’t matter if it is snowing or raining get in that habit so you always have it on. Incidental sun exposure is what gets you.
Skin Care: Quieting Oily Skin
Oily skin is identified by an excess of oil (the technical term is sebum) on the face. Some people with oily skin begin to feel greasy only a few hours after washing. A very oily person would feel the need to wash their face between noon and 5 p.m., because oil has built up during the day, Oily skin can be an inherited trait, but it can also be caused by puberty, which causes oil glands to go into overdrive. You may also notice more oil on your “T-zone” because of all the oil glands in the forehead, nose, and chin.
People with oily skin generally don’t need a regular moisturizers but sunscreen is still necessary to reduce exposure to UV rays. Choose an oil-free sunscreen, one that’s specifically formulated for the face and are less likely to create blackheads and clog pores. There are plenty of oil-free sunscreens available, says. Go to the drugstore, read labels, and try samples of different ones. There’s no excuse not to use sunscreen anymore.
Skin Care: Soothing Dry Skin
Dry skin, on the other hand, suffers from a lack of natural moisture — there’s little oil to act as a surface barrier and lock in moisture. People with dry skin feel a tightness about their face, and their skin is often irritated. Flaking is another symptom, but it’s not always a sure sign of dry skin. You can have flaky skin and not be dry.
Naturally-occurring menopause can have the same effect; most women begin to experience drier skin as they hit their late forties. To care for dry skin, use a gentle, soap-free cleanser, and moisturize adequately. A second application of moisturizer may be needed during the day.
Skin Care: Balancing Combination Skin
Combination skin is a blend of both oily and dry skin. People with combination skin usually find that their oily skin is concentrated in the T-zone, while their cheeks remain dry. Combination skin can be influenced by genetics and, again, by puberty, when oil glands increase their production of sebum. Sometimes a variety of products are needed to treat combination skin. “You may have to treat different parts of the face slightly differently. For example, a mild cleanser and moisturizer may be needed on the cheeks, while an anti-acne product with benzoyl peroxide might be necessary on the T-zone.

how to be confident

Confidence is developed in the mind its all a mind game. It is a belief that you can rely on yourself, your personality, your skills, your knowledge, the truth you know, and your theories. It is all about being 100% sure of yourself. Being confident shows up in the personality, in the way you communicate, while doing work, and more.
A confident person is a high-quality person who is able to make others trust him or her. But the reverse of this is being over confident which counters the expected results amongst your relationships. So, if you want to be successful, you must be confident.
to develop confidence you should consider the following steps
  1. Dress smart. When you dress smart and right, you feel good and attractive.wear appropriate and clean clothes, and carry yourself well.
  2. Maintain a good posture. Don’t let your shoulders droop, your head drop or your back hunch. A good posture conveys “energy” and enhances your confidence levels.
  3. Read a motivating story every morning and whenever you are down. You can store a library of such stories on your phone or computer
  4. Express gratitude for everything life has given you. If you learn to be content with what you have achieved and what is coming at you, you will eliminate all negative thoughts.
  5. Exercise. When you work out, your physical appearance improves. You start looking well-toned and other folks start admiring you. Exercising regularly also eliminates fatigue and fills your body with a burst of energy that keeps you going for the whole day.
  6. Always focus on your goals. People simply “unlearn” how to be confident by following stray thoughts and crazy ideas. Follow your personal and business goals and don’t lose sight until you achieve them. You will start feeling proud of your achievements when you realize goals and that will spur you on to handle more complex tasks.
  7. Don’t keep to yourself and don’t be afraid. Speak up in a meeting. No human is perfect and it’s okay if you make mistakes. Speaking up and being heard can boost your confidence levels tremendously.
  8. Don’t focus on the self. Focus on how you are changing the things around you – at home and in office. Thinking and focusing on your contributions will help you make things better and when you make things better, people will look up to you and that will make you confident and help you stop taking things personally.
  9. Thank others, be objective in your assessment, and accept compliments graciously. Stay away from idle gossip, and don’t insult people. When you respect others, others will respect you and your book value will go up automatically.Finally, remember that every successful man is not successful at first. He has tasted many failures and then succeeded. Such positive thinking will help you maintain your confidence levels.

the easiest way to be attractive to yourself

When I was young, I often obsessed about what I looked like. Perhaps this happens to everyone, more-or-less. It is common to be a bit dissatisfied with parts of our body, our appearance, and our level of attractiveness. This dissatisfaction and concern especially comes out when we think about dating and becoming passionate with a partner.
As I studied attraction further, however, I came to understand that physical appearance was not the only aspect of ourselves that was attractive. Our personalities can influence how others see us (for more, see here). In addition, our confidence and social skills can spark attraction, passion, and intrigue in potential lovers (see here, here, here, and here).

Eventually, I also discovered that those "unchangeable" parts of our looks were not driving attraction anyway! Contrary to popular belief, a symmetrical nose, the perfectly proportionate figure, or a classic face are not nearly as important as the apects of yourself that are easy to change. The little things under your control are the most attractive characteristics of all.
so if you ever felt like this then you should know it will not take the shaking of the earth for you to be attractive but rather it will be a surprise if after going through this blog you are still unattractive!
we are all beautiful

Thursday 19 April 2012

how to be attractive to men 2

This is the second part in the series 'how to be attractive to men' to
refresh our memory a bit,yesterday we talked about secret 1which was
'do not be overly serious or emotional'
Now secret 2!
Dress attractively: these doesnt mean costumes,get nice,clean flattery
clothes,you can be official all you want out there, but when you get
home make it interesting,dont bore him with over-used granny's
dresses.follow the trend and buy cute nite dresses, nice baby tops and
shorts.
If a man stops seeing what hooked him, the truth is gets over you.
Whatever attracted him to you dont let it die.
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Wednesday 18 April 2012

How attractive are kids?

We've been all about ladies now lets talk about kids. How attractive
can they really be?
How do you judge and attractive child?
Kids in my words, are angels so innocent and tiny sometimes naughty though.
If you are a mother,am sure you adore your children and dress them up
real good. Below are some special attributes of attractive kids.though
all kids are unique and pretty,some are just so cute you cant look
away.
Chubby bodies
good amount of hair
baby colour clothes
nice stylish shoes
simple dresses
smily face, always happy
friendly to everyone
intelligent and smart
obedient and honest

kids even at age two can be disobedient and unfriendly.
Which is total turn off,no matter how beautifuly dressing.
Nothing more annoying than a proud snobby child
Nothing more charming than a caring attentive child.

how to be attractive to men 1

this is the first class in our series 'be the one' sometimes as ladies
we wonder why a man who is so crazy and attracted to you suddenly
starts giving you the 'whatever' attitude.
The reason is not far-fetched and its that they get bored.
There's nothing that wears a man interest as an overly
serious,emotional or angry woman.
There you have it!
AVOID BEEN TOO SERIOUS OR EMOTIONAL: Men are just crazily attracted to
light-headed women,who dont just have a sense of humour,but laughs
issues,
do not over-emphasise issues it makes him feel incapable.
Do not be a cry baby, always wanting to be pampered,pamper him instead.
Loosen up around his friends.
Do not give him laws
so thats it for today, you get the next tip tommorow, subscribe my
mail to know when its out.

Tuesday 17 April 2012

VS: How attractive can a silly woman be?

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Emne: How attractive can a silly woman be?


An attractive woman is a complete woman,not just attractive in dressing,make up but also in attitude i know a lot of men who find funny ladies very attractive.
85% of men have testified to getting drawn to women who do silly things not regularly but once in a while.
So all the atractive women out there
loosen up! Don't be so stiff always develop a sense of humour
doesn't it feel great to be attractive,confident and influencing? Lots of ls...its the best feeling ever so ladies, enjoy it!

Monday 16 April 2012

quotes from marriane williamson

"our deepest fear is not that we are in adequate
our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
it is our light not darkness that most frightens us.
we ask ourselves, who am i to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
actually, who are you not to be?
you are a child of God, you're playing small does not serve the world.
there is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people wont feel insecure around you
we are all mearnt to shine, as children do
we were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us
its in everyone
and as we let our own light shine
we unconsciously give others the permission to do the same
as we are liberated from our fear
our presence automatically liberates others"