Saturday, 5 May 2012

hair style for different oval shaped faces

it is a fact that no matter how trendy you are,you cannot make all hair styles attractive black women are no exception even the most attractive women.if you do the end point will be you looking very unattractive,the same way you cannot  wear all kinds of clothes the same applies to hair styles.but I'll have you know that you can do it all! with the right stylist and strategy, all you need is a little changes here and there and you have it suiting your face perfectly, one major face shape that attracts women and men is the oval shaped face sometimes the shape of a man’s face attracts women.

this is a very broad topic and i cant trash it completely on one post,so we will be looking at all the shapes of faces one after the other on separate posts.today is for oval shaped face which is below and is considered the most resourceful face, cos it goes with anything and is mostly appreciably

you can determine if you have this shape of face by the following:

sit in front of a mirror

tie your hair all back in form of a pony tail

use a chalk to draw a line around your face like below

what do you notice?

your forehead is narrow

your jaw line is smooth

your cheeks are wider: in simple terms an oval face is smaller at the forehead and the chin and broader at the cheeks.

if you have such then i think you should celebrate.so in looking attractive you have to make a hair style that suits that face of yours or else it will be disastrous.

lets start with short hair styles for oval face and there are below:cute-short-hairstyle hairstyles-for-oval-face-shapes-2009-short-hairstyle-from-sharon-stone-1

if you are ova led shape and small in figure with light weight hair,then you should make short hair styles.long hairstyles will only hide that beautiful shaped face.

try making hair that has layers either to your cheekbone or jaw,or whichever you like best below: attracting women

also long hair styles for oval shape faces below:

long-curly-popular-women-hair-style-for-oval-face-shape_2  curly-haircut-2

also curly hair styles ofr oval face

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NOTE:always pick styles you can manage and brush daily,insist to your stylist that the volume of your hair correspond with your body figure.

with these information i am sure you now know some great ways to make your hair that suits your face.and you can pick from the styles listed.nigerian celebs with oval faces.

hair style for different oval shaped faces


celebrate with short hairstyles it is a fact that no matter how trendy you are,you cannot make all hair styles attractive black women are no exception even the most attractive women.if you do the end point will be you looking very unattractive,the same way you cannot  wear all kinds of clothes the same applies to hair styles.but I'll have you know that you can do it all! with the right stylist and strategy, all you need is a little changes here and there and you have it suiting your face perfectly, one major face shape that attracts women and men is the oval shaped face sometimes the shape of a man’s face attracts women.
this is a very broad topic and i cant trash it completely on one post,so we will be looking at all the shapes of faces one after the other on separate posts.today is for oval shaped face which is below and is considered the most resourceful face, cos it goes with anything and is mostly appreciably
you can determine if you have this shape of face by the following:
sit in front of a mirror
tie your hair all back in form of a pony tail
use a chalk to draw a line around your face like below
what do you notice?
your forehead is narrow
your jaw line is smooth
your cheeks are wider: in simple terms an oval face is smaller at the forehead and the chin and broader at the cheeks.
if you have such then i think you should celebrate.so in looking attractive you have to make a hair style that suits that face of yours or else it will be disastrous.
celebrate with short hairstyles
celebrate with short hairstyles
lets start with short hair styles for oval face and there are below: hairstyles-for-oval-face-shapes-2009-short-hairstyle-from-sharon-stone-1
if you are ova led shape and small in figure with light weight hair,then you should make short hair styles.long hairstyles will only hide that beautiful shaped face.
try making hair that has layers either to your cheekbone or jaw,or whichever you like best below: attracting women
also long hair styles for oval shape faces below:
long-curly-popular-women-hair-style-for-oval-face-shape_2  curly-haircut-2
also curly hair styles ofr oval face
482409_f520hairstyles-for-round-faces-4
NOTE:always pick styles you can manage and brush daily,insist to your stylist that the volume of your hair correspond with your body figure.
with these information i am sure you now know some great ways to make your hair that suits your face.and you can pick from the styles listed.nigerian celebs with oval faces.

how to attract women

well, a good friend wanted to know how men can be attractive to women and since its related to women we are going to talk about it today.

we hear a lot of ‘beautiful women, attractive women’ and so on and on one end women want to know how to be attractive to men which has been earlier posted so lets face it.

how can a man be attractive to women has been turned to what attracts women to men! women can fancy a lot of things from voice, dress style, attitude to aura but specifically all women looove good looking men.

now what do women call ‘ good looking’

tall, muscular and hairy no matter how preservative a woman is, she will fall under one of the above. she may like the tall ones, the dark ones, the hairy ones or the funny ones.

1: women get attracted to men with a sense of humor, hmm yes we do, a tough and serious man is okay BUT she will get bored easily. i do not mean making unnecessary jokes and laughing at silly things, i mean a man who handles situations lightly you may be angry,uncomfortable or whatever but you don't put frustrations on her instead you make a joke out of it. she will fall in love with you. WARNING: never joke about her appearance or manners that's one place your humor shouldn't go to.

2: to attract beautiful confident women you need more than a sweet tongue. ‘ you are what you wear’ don't ignore that phrase if you intend to woo a beautiful woman. dress well a simple, finely cut outfit will do as long as its clean don't go wearing sweaters in hot weather or sleeveless in cold weather. it will turn the woman off because she will feel like you are trying to impress her at your expense and that looks ‘desperate’ and desperate men are a no-no!

3: what does your hair, nails, teeth and shoes look like? think about that before approaching a beautiful woman. its always easier to get a woman who pays no attention to herself but a woman who is consciously making herself attractive will easily detect that a man is dirty no matter how clean his clothes are.

4: manners if you want that beautiful woman learn manners, it shouldn't be about you always in fact let it be 80% her, 20% you. that's fair.

5: ‘'cut your cloak according to your size’’ what is a man doing chasing a woman he cant take care of if given the chance, yes we know love plays tricks on us sometimes. but seriously a guy wants to attract his boss! dreamer even she gets trapped you wouldn't be valued and that will surely trash your ego.

5: decorations that what i call those accessories men ‘matured men’ cloth themselves with. you wont get a woman that way it repels her, you would look like a teenager (that's if you’re not) wearing so many bracelets, wrist watches, neck chain, trouser chain are you going for a costume party? women love well dressed men with less decorations

before attempting to attract any beautiful woman check this:

your hair: wash well, use good lotions

nails: trim them very low unless you can keep them clean

clothes: how neat and fashionable except if the woman isn't a fashion conscious type

manners: ladies first

humor- humor her,compliment her dress but don't over do it

brain- don't contribute to what you know nothing about

these are my opinions are do not necessarily reflect all women, so feel free to drop contributions below and it will be added. don't forget to like our page www.facebook.com/theacademy.ng and subscribe to our weekly newsletters you will love them!

 

Women for Men

most times we are faced with so much loneliness and a feeling of not been alive that we seek solace, attention and love from the opposite sex. both men and women seek each other for various reasons some of which they never find solutions in the partners they find. i am going to talk about why we seek each other, the feelings we have when we find someone and the most likely end of it all. this is a personal opinion and no offence meant to anyone please. and other opinions and arguments are welcome.
WHY MEN SEEK WOMEN ONLINE
one of the most popular reason men seek women online is to play dirty tricks. the anonymous nature of online dating creates room for lies, deception and impersonation. most men are not what they would love to be in reality, maybe in regards to wealth, power or security. so if they seek women who can see them it would be difficult to exercise power over such women because they are not worth it but online they can lie and deceive thereby gaining the respect and love they crave from an ignorant woman.(no offence meant)
the second reason is lack of confidence and self esteem to approach women physically so they do it online were they do not need to speak face to face. in such relationships some also seek women they would naturally not approach in reality and demand for things they would not dare ask for in person.
its like talking to a translucent glass, we see but we don't really see
WHY WOMEN SEEK MEN ONLINE
for women is mostly loneliness. women are attention seeking in nature and we always want to be loved, pampered and told nice things. if we can not get such from our partners we seek them online. as a fact all men you meet online are always nice. haven’t you ever wondered why?
secondly, desperation for life partners or intimate partners forces women to search for men online.at a certain age if a woman has no steady partner she starts getting desperate for marriage. while some women seek fantasies they cant bring themselves to ask their partners in real life.
WHEN THEY FIND EACH OTHER
when this two group meet, unusual things begin to happen. they lie about their age, job, location, marital status, children, education etc. they give each other what they seek without restrictions love, fun, attention, respect, intimacy etc. they build dream lives together to a stage they stop living their normal lives and dwell in fantasies that such relationships will last forever, it does last for long in some cases, you withdraw offline and live online.
THE END OF IT ALL
they wake up from the dream and realize the time they wasted on a farce and the relationships they lost while dreaming. 10% of such relationship leads to marriage, out of the 10, 5% divorce under a year, 3% endure abusive relationships, only 2% live happily ever after. is it worth the time we give it? what if you don't get so lucky, I'm not saying its wrong to date online i just want you all to know the risk involved. while you meet men and women online and make good long lasting friends as i have too do not overlook reality. ‘ the devil you know……….’ I'll
let you complete that.
like I said its a personal opinion, yours are welcome. to all my beautiful women out there play but play safe!

Friends become families

beautiful women

hello! today I'm a little bit over-excited because I'm talking beautiful women! but not what you are expecting so read on

beautiful women are those pleasant smelling, expensive looking women true or false?

beautiful women and well cultured decent dressed women true or false?

beautiful women are those money making, single, sexy (whatever it means), high society babies true or false?

it means different things to different people

the world today is filled with zillions of magazine voted or self voted beautiful women from celebs, reality TV stars, models, business women, housewives etc. what makes them beautiful? their charisma, aura, smiles, charm, dressing, attitude, family etc

why isn't everyone beautiful? we all are but some just get noticed more because they put themselves out there!

Two categories:

beautiful women voted by society

beautiful women voted by themselves

i want a long list of each with photos and post for each if you would like to be the writer drop a contact below! time to guest post here!

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Saturday, 21 April 2012

how to be attractive to men 3&4

For the last two day we've discussed 2 secrets to enhance a man's
attraction to you!
Tip 3 Do not be a talkative: there is nothing as annoying as when
someone wont stop talking and they keep interrupting you. Have you
experienced that before? H mm.. Well i have i always pick up my phone
and ignore them...yes, and they get the message instantly!
Imagine on an outing with a potential or already boyfriend and you
just cant shut up!
Before he completes a sentence you jump in,trust me a week is the
longest he will last around you.
Now sometimes we do not know we are talkative.if you wish to know
practice this poll i used it in secondary after a friend told me i was
rude.
Pick disparately 5 friends
ask them if u interrupt in discussions-do it individually
if 3 or 2 out of 5 says maybe or yes
please adjust.

Friday, 20 April 2012

make up in 5 minutes

The perfect makeover is like a work of art. Just like the artist who primes his canvas to mask the imperfections, we also need to do the same but with foundation! The ideal foundation must have the right coverage but should not leave your skin looking pink, orange, ashy or two-toned. It must be totally natural-looking.
When doing a makeover, the only color on the face should come from blush,eye shadow,lipstick,lip gloss, mascara or eye liner.foundation should be used as a "primer" to create the canvas, not to add color!
Most women have yellow based skin and most likely, so do you. To create the effect of having naturally flawless skin you must wear a color base foundation that suits your skin. If the foundation you select has a pink or orange tone, you will never get a perfect match. Be wary of brands that claim to be yellow based but are really orange-based.
some makeup have a true yellow base. developed for beauty pageants so there are foundation shades for all skin colors and they all fit like a Second Skin.
If you have naturally great skin, then by all means use a sheer liquid foundation. For full coverage we recommend that you select a cream foundation.
If you need to conceal severe skin blemishes such as marks, acne, vitiligo or rosacea, then you need to use maximum coverage camouflage concealer. You can easily using this camouflage makeup as well. This also has to be yellow based to ensure a natural-looking, flawless finish.
When you have created the look of having flawless-looking skin, you now have the perfect canvas to explore your creativity with your cheek, lip and especially your eye colors.
this is just a simple guide to a 5 minute make up, if you have contributions please drop them below or contact me to write for us.

How do i know my skin type

your skin is generally classified into one of four categories:
-normal
-oily
-dry
 However, your skin type can change as you age, and other factors like genetics and even illness can play a part
Normal skin:
which has a good balance of moisture, small pores and an even tone, is the goal of most skin care regimens. Most people have normal skin, but to maintain its good condition, it’s important to minimize its exposure to the sun using good sunscreens.
Put it by your toothpaste and use it, It doesn’t matter if it is snowing or raining get in that habit so you always have it on. Incidental sun exposure is what gets you.
Skin Care: Quieting Oily Skin
Oily skin is identified by an excess of oil (the technical term is sebum) on the face. Some people with oily skin begin to feel greasy only a few hours after washing. A very oily person would feel the need to wash their face between noon and 5 p.m., because oil has built up during the day, Oily skin can be an inherited trait, but it can also be caused by puberty, which causes oil glands to go into overdrive. You may also notice more oil on your “T-zone” because of all the oil glands in the forehead, nose, and chin.
People with oily skin generally don’t need a regular moisturizers but sunscreen is still necessary to reduce exposure to UV rays. Choose an oil-free sunscreen, one that’s specifically formulated for the face and are less likely to create blackheads and clog pores. There are plenty of oil-free sunscreens available, says. Go to the drugstore, read labels, and try samples of different ones. There’s no excuse not to use sunscreen anymore.
Skin Care: Soothing Dry Skin
Dry skin, on the other hand, suffers from a lack of natural moisture — there’s little oil to act as a surface barrier and lock in moisture. People with dry skin feel a tightness about their face, and their skin is often irritated. Flaking is another symptom, but it’s not always a sure sign of dry skin. You can have flaky skin and not be dry.
Naturally-occurring menopause can have the same effect; most women begin to experience drier skin as they hit their late forties. To care for dry skin, use a gentle, soap-free cleanser, and moisturize adequately. A second application of moisturizer may be needed during the day.
Skin Care: Balancing Combination Skin
Combination skin is a blend of both oily and dry skin. People with combination skin usually find that their oily skin is concentrated in the T-zone, while their cheeks remain dry. Combination skin can be influenced by genetics and, again, by puberty, when oil glands increase their production of sebum. Sometimes a variety of products are needed to treat combination skin. “You may have to treat different parts of the face slightly differently. For example, a mild cleanser and moisturizer may be needed on the cheeks, while an anti-acne product with benzoyl peroxide might be necessary on the T-zone.

how to be confident

Confidence is developed in the mind its all a mind game. It is a belief that you can rely on yourself, your personality, your skills, your knowledge, the truth you know, and your theories. It is all about being 100% sure of yourself. Being confident shows up in the personality, in the way you communicate, while doing work, and more.
A confident person is a high-quality person who is able to make others trust him or her. But the reverse of this is being over confident which counters the expected results amongst your relationships. So, if you want to be successful, you must be confident.
to develop confidence you should consider the following steps
  1. Dress smart. When you dress smart and right, you feel good and attractive.wear appropriate and clean clothes, and carry yourself well.
  2. Maintain a good posture. Don’t let your shoulders droop, your head drop or your back hunch. A good posture conveys “energy” and enhances your confidence levels.
  3. Read a motivating story every morning and whenever you are down. You can store a library of such stories on your phone or computer
  4. Express gratitude for everything life has given you. If you learn to be content with what you have achieved and what is coming at you, you will eliminate all negative thoughts.
  5. Exercise. When you work out, your physical appearance improves. You start looking well-toned and other folks start admiring you. Exercising regularly also eliminates fatigue and fills your body with a burst of energy that keeps you going for the whole day.
  6. Always focus on your goals. People simply “unlearn” how to be confident by following stray thoughts and crazy ideas. Follow your personal and business goals and don’t lose sight until you achieve them. You will start feeling proud of your achievements when you realize goals and that will spur you on to handle more complex tasks.
  7. Don’t keep to yourself and don’t be afraid. Speak up in a meeting. No human is perfect and it’s okay if you make mistakes. Speaking up and being heard can boost your confidence levels tremendously.
  8. Don’t focus on the self. Focus on how you are changing the things around you – at home and in office. Thinking and focusing on your contributions will help you make things better and when you make things better, people will look up to you and that will make you confident and help you stop taking things personally.
  9. Thank others, be objective in your assessment, and accept compliments graciously. Stay away from idle gossip, and don’t insult people. When you respect others, others will respect you and your book value will go up automatically.Finally, remember that every successful man is not successful at first. He has tasted many failures and then succeeded. Such positive thinking will help you maintain your confidence levels.

the easiest way to be attractive to yourself

When I was young, I often obsessed about what I looked like. Perhaps this happens to everyone, more-or-less. It is common to be a bit dissatisfied with parts of our body, our appearance, and our level of attractiveness. This dissatisfaction and concern especially comes out when we think about dating and becoming passionate with a partner.
As I studied attraction further, however, I came to understand that physical appearance was not the only aspect of ourselves that was attractive. Our personalities can influence how others see us (for more, see here). In addition, our confidence and social skills can spark attraction, passion, and intrigue in potential lovers (see here, here, here, and here).

Eventually, I also discovered that those "unchangeable" parts of our looks were not driving attraction anyway! Contrary to popular belief, a symmetrical nose, the perfectly proportionate figure, or a classic face are not nearly as important as the apects of yourself that are easy to change. The little things under your control are the most attractive characteristics of all.
so if you ever felt like this then you should know it will not take the shaking of the earth for you to be attractive but rather it will be a surprise if after going through this blog you are still unattractive!
we are all beautiful

Thursday, 19 April 2012

how to be attractive to men 2

This is the second part in the series 'how to be attractive to men' to
refresh our memory a bit,yesterday we talked about secret 1which was
'do not be overly serious or emotional'
Now secret 2!
Dress attractively: these doesnt mean costumes,get nice,clean flattery
clothes,you can be official all you want out there, but when you get
home make it interesting,dont bore him with over-used granny's
dresses.follow the trend and buy cute nite dresses, nice baby tops and
shorts.
If a man stops seeing what hooked him, the truth is gets over you.
Whatever attracted him to you dont let it die.
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Wednesday, 18 April 2012

How attractive are kids?

We've been all about ladies now lets talk about kids. How attractive
can they really be?
How do you judge and attractive child?
Kids in my words, are angels so innocent and tiny sometimes naughty though.
If you are a mother,am sure you adore your children and dress them up
real good. Below are some special attributes of attractive kids.though
all kids are unique and pretty,some are just so cute you cant look
away.
Chubby bodies
good amount of hair
baby colour clothes
nice stylish shoes
simple dresses
smily face, always happy
friendly to everyone
intelligent and smart
obedient and honest

kids even at age two can be disobedient and unfriendly.
Which is total turn off,no matter how beautifuly dressing.
Nothing more annoying than a proud snobby child
Nothing more charming than a caring attentive child.