Monday, 2 April 2012

How should a LADY shop for clothes

stock-photo-different-female-clothes-shoes-and-accessories-3602862 As an attracvtive lady of style and class you don't shop like everyone else. so today I'm telling how to shop right, get the best prices,colors,shapes, designs etc
but i really cannot give you every detail because its sort off difficult to explain in writing.I'm going to use me and my sis as case study
“i want to go shopping to change my wardrobe and i asked faith to come along”
first lesson:don't go shopping alone,two heads are better than one
“i want to start with skirts and i and faith pick out three great boutiques in town, we picked a date”
second lesson:do not go to any shop, pick out before going, if you have no idea where is the best.i can help you with directories, don't get scared the information will be for free.
“when we got to the first shop, we went straight to the skirt section, and picked all the ones we like which was 18 pieces and i only wanted ten.out of the 18, we picked out the best from the 18 which made it reduce to 13, we picked out the best again and it reduced to 10,BINGO! i have successfully picked out ten best skirts from that shop!”
third lesson:if its skirt you wish to buy don't look at tops, go straight to skirts *i know that's difficult but discipline yourself* even if you want just two feel free pick out ten! and countdown like i did in the case study
“before we paid we check the quality of each skirt, texture,coloring,sewing line etc so we wont buy bad materials we weighed the prices with the skirts and since there were all worth it we paid.”
fourth lesson;check and check things before you pay let your friend help you.
i am an independent fashion consultant and i have helped so many shop even in their absence, i go with clients as a guide,i shop for busy clients and give advice on dressing and attractiveness.
so if you need further help or you want to know something i failed to address here call m08182525354 or email infotheacademy@yahoo.com

Nine ways to take care of your nails

nails-z Our nails is a very important part of our general appearance but just like our hair most people tend to think that because we can have it covered its pointless getting yourself worked out over it.
i say pamper your nails,you are admired more when your natural nails is clean and neat than when your artificial nails is clean and neat. why because everyone knows how difficult it is to take care of the natural nails and make it beautiful. as an African I'll list some challenges i encounter with my n.nails and i wouldn't know if it also applies to other races.there are
  • breaking: even when you file and trim them there keep breaking and looking distorted
  • inability of the applied nail paint to stay for a long time,it peels off in days.
  • dirt keeps getting in making it brownish especially if you live in dusty environment or cities
  • it doesn't grow beyond a certain extent cos it breaks
above are the most common problems we have with our nails,but still you can not ignore them, you must take care of them so people don't reject food from you or dread shaking hands with you
you can take care of the above issues in nine ways which are:
  • always wash your hands frequently after doing anything even writing it keeps them softer and whiter
  • use dis solvers to remove nail polish do not use blade,it kills the strength of your nails and that makes them break.
  • when trimming them do it in a preferably in a u-shape
  • never chew your nails
  • don't expose them to heat especially when cooking use a glove
  • soak them in lemon at least twice a week its a nail treatment
  • use hand lotions, like DOVE products
  • then polish them with natural colors except in special occasions
  • be always conscious of them and love them too,
with all these you will feel how good your nails feel.be consistent and in months time,friends will envy your nails.there is a reason you have to do this people see your nails a lot without your permission and frequent use of artificial shows lack of confidence, so even when you have good nails,people just believe you use artificial because you have bad nails.when you write,type,shake,give,touch,point and so on.people see your nails! bear it in mind if you decide to ignore this nail care tips. but i do believe your reading this blog is not for a waste. do check out the full blog or bookmark it http://beautifulnigeriangirl.blogspot.com
i can recommend some really good products call or email for help 08182525354 infotheacademy@yahoo.com

how your bra affects your dressing, making you less attractive

believe it or not your bra plays a role in how much of an attractive woman you are.wearing all the nice clothes will be meaningless if your have a bad bra on.

what is a bra?

it is that lingerie you wear to cover and put your breast in shape

what is bad bra?

a bad bra only covers but fails to put your breast in shape like below

how do i know i have a bad bra on?

its easy because to be a beautiful woman you must be conscious of your appearanceBad-bra-21

  • look at a full length mirror wearing a bra
  • find out if your breast is touching your chest under, if it is, its not a good one because if you wear a bra your breast should be independent i.e not leaning down
  • find out if your breast is protruding through the upper part of your bra,like you are wearing an undersize.if it is your bra is bad  as in image 1
  • turn around and look at the back, where is the strap, if it on the same level as your breast it wrong. a good bra’s back strap should be below the breast levelphoto-sup-bad1-lg

with these few signs you should change the bra,because it will totally ruin your dressing! it will either make your breast look like my grandmother’s or it would make them look like those girls that hawk oranges.in case you don't know how their breast looks on their cloths,I'll try to describe it,the bra pushes up the breast so much that their breast is almost to their throat  and if you take a look at their back the strap becomes a ‘necklace’ do you get the picture? well if you don't click the link http://beautifulnigeriangirl.blogspot.com and check my photos.

i have tried to describe these to the best of my ability.so what’s a good bra simple! its the opposite of the bad one and it has the following features:

the back strap is placed below your breast line

your breast do  not protrude out,its very free and your breast are relaxed not high or low just where there have to be

there will be a space between your breasts,it totally frees your breast not suffocate them

so that’s it!59053544 clear bra strap

in the case you need personal help in shopping for a bra or clothes or consult on dressing,like a guide  and you are in Nigeria call 08182525354 or email, if you are in Abuja i will personally get them for you.

Friday, 30 March 2012

how to pick the perfect shoe for work

buy-discount-shoes-760437 work, office,business whatever you call yours is a place for making money and such places you are weigh and trusted to the extent of your appearance and conduct. no matter how much brains you have if you appear shabbily people would not see you as reliable or trustworthy. have you ever heard someone at work whisper
“where on earth does she get her clothes”
oh please don't send her!
THESE LINES ARE USED ON LADIES OR MEN WHO DON'T DRESS WELL
now we are are talking about shoes, yes shoes!
if you love shoes put your hand in the air! yes, we have so many kind of shoes i wouldn't want to start naming them, cos i cant exhaust the list.while going to work as a lady you can wear corporate or casual depending on what you do but I'm addressing collar workers, which means those who work in place where they have to be on suits everyday!now we have all kind of suit also, and you can wear any kind if you are the boss, but if you are an employee. you must wear the plain traditional suits which comprises of a skirt/trousers, an inner shirt and a suit jacket. dressing in these will make look like every other lady in the office but dressing the way I'm about to tell will make you look like no other in the office, because you will stand out.you might all have to wear the regular suits, but I'm sure your boss did not say you all have to wear a particular kind of shoe so that means your only leverage is your SHOE!
I'm going to use myself as a case study here
if i want to wear a a black suit (short skirt,on the knee), i would put on a purple inner shirt, why? because black and purple blends, its not too catchy to the eye neither can you ignore it, its just perfect! what shoe would i put on…guess a black high heeled sandals(the height you can bear) with a touch of purple. can you picture yourself in that?
your boss would go what! but he wont throw you out, *winks* so don't get scared it would be strange the first time especially if you haven't been on THE ATTRACTIVE at work (note been attractive isn't been sexy or having a particular shape or color, its the packaging,just like biscuits PACKAGING)
with that same suit I'll wear a deep pink inner shirt ( no tie please, i hate ties), deep pink because it will be darker like the purple, not too obvious or ignorable, and a deep pink high-heeled shoe, whatever kind but it should be high not flat, because high heels add a kind of CLASS to the whole movement and stance, like i said its packaging.
with that same suit i will rock colors don't be afraid of bright colors just use the deep ones when using black and the brighter ones when using colors like ash, gold,brown,navy blue.MY THEORY IS BRIGHTER TO DARKER DARKER TO BRIGHTER i cant advise you to wear a white suit and a pink inner to an office that you don't own!. its a good color but it has a voice and it will tell your boss “i own the company” anyone who sees  you in that wouldn't count you as an ordinary employee, they might like you more and the boss would get angry.
in summary
  • dark suits to deep bright colors( dark pink, dark blue, deep gold and so on)
  • bright suits like gold,light brown, ash to dark colors( like black, purple,navy blue, white)
  • your shoe complement the inner the shirts color,now if your inner shirt is whit or bright pink or bright yellow those sort of colors.let your shoes go with the color of the suit not the inner shirt.because we don't want you looking like run way model in a business setting.
  • forbidden work shoes colors unless you own the place: white,bright pink,bright pink and so on but you can use the deep ones
  • wear fitted dresses so you don't hide the beauty of
  • your shoes,it does not have to be so tight that i can see the lines of your panties, moderately fitted.
  • stay away from flat shoes when going to work. it reduces your presence.it makes you drag your feet instead of picking your steps.
  • buy original quality shoes, this part is in two: 1: don't go for cheap products that will fall off and embarrass you 2:don't go looking at price tags, a good shoe does not have to be expensive.
  • when buying your shoes check the soles, the heels should be solidly joined to the flap.check the leather.
have a favorite shoe shop, so you can return or report bad shoes,but if you jump from one place to the other, no shop would like you enough to take back what you wish to return.call or email for guide 08182525354 infotheacademy@yahoocom

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